I am very big into family, and I have a big family as well. 5 brothers and sisters (I'm the 5th of 6). 13 nieces and nephews (it's about to be 14 because yet another one is due in October!). 5 great-nephews & 5 great-nieces. And no, with that many family members, I do not keep up with birthdays very well. Even with a master list on my fridge.
I'm also married. My husband and I got married here in San Antonio at the historic Sheraton Gunter Hotel downtown. And we are the proud parents of a 9 year old Alaskan Husky named Moo and three 1 year old kittens, Wicket, Willow, and Winter.
Like all Texas moms, I made my kid pose in the bluebonnets.
Any parent can tell you that manners don’t come naturally and that it’s not the easiest thing to teach. But it can be done. Here are some hints.
Start early. Even toddlers can begin to pick up the basics. Teach them to say "please" and "thank you," for example. By age 4 or 5, most kids are ready to learn more. Sure, preschoolers can be wriggly and impatient. But, most children this age can grasp what's good mealtime behavior.
Explain why manners matter. Talk to your youngsters about why being polite is important. Point out that others enjoy well-behaved company when eating a meal.
Focus on progress, not perfection. As much as you are able, keep discipline at the table to the minimum. Try not to harp on lapses in good manners. Give firm, but gentle, reminders instead.
Give rave reviews. Dish out plenty of praise for good behavior at the table. Be as specific as you can. For example: "You did so well asking nicely for another glass of milk."
What else can help? Take a look at other ideas here.